5 Holiday Networking Blunders to Avoid - FlexJobs

5 Holiday Networking Blunders to Avoid - FlexJobs5 Holiday Networking Blunders to Avoid -Tis the season for holiday parties, which means one thing networking Avoid these holiday networking blunders at the next party.The holidays are generally a time when people feel mora generous, cheery and festive- so its a great chance to meet new people, exchange contact info and ignite some solid relationships you can foster in 2013.To set yourself up for more networking opportunities, and accept as many holiday party invites as you can But beware these networkingblunders1. Making it Obvious that You are NetworkingThe worst offense is to blatantly network at any holiday party, says Kathy Bertone, author and speaker of The Art of the Visit Being the Perfect Host.Unless youre at a networking event, its crucial to conceal your professional intentions at holiday parties. This is all about planting a binnenseed, which takes time. Casually mention what you do but dont talk shop the entire time. Try to get to know your new acquaintance first. Check out thisanti-schmooze guide to networking for more tips.2. Drink Past Your LimitMost holiday parties provide booze. The best way to make a terrible impression is to be that guy in a drunken stupor, reeking of alcohol and slurring his words.3. Totally Miss SignalsFollow your gut. If you feel like someones not really interested in talking to you, move on. Theres no point in dragging an awkward or unnecessary encounter further than it has to go. For instance, if she abruptly changes the subject when you ask, what do you do? or isnt really making much eye contact, relieve this person. Say you have to go to the bathroom or simply end with pleasure talking with you. Who knows, she might be too tired or simply not into the party.4. Dont Ask Them Any QuestionsWhen it comes to effective networking, youve got to give to get. If you feel like youve been talking about yourself for a long time, practice the age old technique of asking two to three questions for every answer you give, suggests John Lyotier of Christmas.com.People love talking about themselves, so give them an opportunity. If they give short, closed responses, then see No. 3.5. Forget About Following UpIf you spent a considerable amount of time with someone at a holiday party and even exchanged contact information, the least you can do is actually follow-up. Wait a day or two and send a quick note about how you enjoyed meeting them and reference something you guys talked about. Its the best way to stay fresh in someones memory and build a solid foundation for future networking conversations.Todays guest post comes from CareerBliss. CareerBliss cares about your career happiness. Thats why we offer a great tools and resources to help you make better-informed career decisions. We believe that if youre happier at work, youll be happier in life Check outcompany reviews,salary information,career adviceand, of course, millions of jobs on CareerBliss and choose happy t odayReaders, what holiday networking blunders have you made? How do you avoid them? Tell us in the comments below